I do not understand why women choose to have children with average looking men. Those men of short/average height with faces the majority of us would agree are ugly, subjectivity aside, since I think this only applies to attractive people. I believe that a particular face can be viewed as ugly by most people because of the distance between eyes, ears, lips and how they fabricated. A face with features conforming to the golden ratio, for example, a number fundamental in the natural world, would be considered attractive by most people. So clearly, not all faces reside on an isotropic plane open to people's subjective preferences as to which is more aesthetically pleasing.
So, it has come to my attention that, with all of this variation in the world, that some variants, namely, men of great height 6'0+ with a face exhibiting a high degree of masculine dimorphism, are more likely to have children and find partners, even if the intermediate years between allow for their cheating and deceit, they will, in time, find a point of stability in their life at which they are a father of children and the husband to their wife. This is all very well and good, but what about those men who are less fortunate and are born into families who aren't tall nor attractive. I have witnessed that these men follow two distinct routes. If they are intelligent, they will become educated and confide in academia. If, however, they are unintelligent, they will most likely follow a route of crime, as society does not value them. We do not value them because they are unattractive and unintelligent and they realize this around the age of puberty.
So given what I have said, I don't understand why women choose to have children with short/ugly men. When I ask this question, and I seldom do, because it is highly insensitive, I receive abusive responses from women. The most common one I get is 'because I love him. He has a nice personality. He is funny. etc' and to which I am deeply, deeply frustrated. These women don't realize that if they decide to have children with these men, the children themselves will wonder why they aren't as attractive as their friends. Their adolescent years will be saturated with self doubt and insecurity. Now what loving mother would want to conceive children who will be subject to this?
An irresponsible mother and there are many of them. If they were to have children with a tall, attractive and athletic male, any children conceived will benefit profusely, as society favors these traits. So although you might love a person's personality, it is essential that you think of how likely it is that given your ancestry, your children will be ugly. Yes, please think of the children! I cannot stress the importance of this because the consciousness that is conceived, if it inherits the short and ugly traits from the father, rather than the tall, athletic traits from another father, it's life will have unnecessary feelings of inferiority, which is the catalyst for mental health problems in adulthood. My friend is an example of a man who lost the genetic lottery but he now wants to have children of his own, with another 'ugly' woman. I can only pity the children who will be conceived into the ruthless world, as they themselves will face ridicule, like he once did, should they explore the mechanics of society, like forming friendships, jobs and such.
So, I say to all women, please try and have children with intelligent, tall and attractive males. Go to your local sperm bank and request sperm from these kinds of men, as there is no reason why you can't remain with the short 'funny' guy whose personality you love while rearing another man's child. It is only fair that the consciousness conceived in this world has an equal footing with others. So, I am for Eugenics and encourage women to find the fittest and most attractive sperm donor they're able to find
What are your thoughts, as mature adults? I am only young but this does not mean that I don't understand how the world works. Those who say your appearance is not as important as your personality, well I think your appearance defines your personality through time. If you believe you are attractive, you are more likely to be extroverted than if you believe you are 'ugly'. Already these choices are defining your life, but woman do not see this for some reason.
There is a certain logic to my thinking which many women cannot grasp, as it involves forward thinking beyond generations. I know this line of thinking is in line with that of Hitler and his Aryan ideologies but this doesn't mean that it's untrue, but I agree that it's impractical and a tad inhumane.